backhanded compliment
1 of 1phrase/ˈbækˌhændɪd ˈkɑmpləmənt/
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a comment that seemingly praises someone but is actually intended to insult them
The origin of the idiom "backhanded compliment" is not tied to a specific historical event or source but rather emerges from the concept of delivering praise in a way that conceals criticism or negative intent. The term "backhanded" draws from the idea of using the back of one's hand, a less direct and more subtle approach, as opposed to a straightforward or open-handed compliment. It is commonly used in everyday conversations, interpersonal relationships, social gatherings, workplace settings, and even in discussions about public figures or public statements.
- She gave him a backhanded compliment by saying his presentation was "cute" instead of acknowledging its quality.
- When Jane received a backhanded compliment about her appearance, she knew her coworker was subtly criticizing her outfit.
- Mark's so-called praise for his friend's cooking, "It's not as bad as I expected," was a classic example of a back-handed compliment.
- Instead of congratulating him sincerely, his rival offered a back-handed compliment, saying he was "impressed" with the minimal progress he'd made.
- Her backhanded compliment about his new hairstyle left him wondering whether she actually liked it or not.