Dutch uncle
1 of 1noun/ˈdʌtʃ ˈʌŋkəl/
Forms:Dutch uncles
1
an individual who criticizes others in a firm yet kind manner
The origin of the idiom "Dutch uncle" is uncertain, but it dates back to the 19th century in Britain. This phrase is used for giving direct and stern advice, akin to a strict family member. It should be used carefully in appropriate situations, aiming to provide constructive feedback and promote personal growth rather than being overly critical.
- He played the role of a Dutch uncle, telling her exactly what she needed to hear to improve her performance.
- I appreciate your Dutch uncle approach in giving me honest feedback on my writing.
- My manager acted like a Dutch uncle, giving me a firm but necessary reality check about my work habits.
- Sometimes, being a Dutch uncle is necessary to help someone realize their mistakes and make positive changes.