velvet glove
1 of 1noun/ˈvɛlvət ɡlʌv/
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a very friendly and gentle manner that is used to hide one's firm determination or ruthless mindset
The idiom "velvet glove" originated from the concept of wearing gloves made of velvet, a soft and smooth fabric. Figuratively, it is used to describe a gentle or polite approach that conceals a firm or assertive attitude or action. The phrase implies the use of tact, subtlety, or diplomacy to handle a situation while maintaining a strong or firm position.
- He may appear to rule with a velvet glove, but he is really quite cruel.
- It is no longer exercising power through velvet gloves.
- She managed to resolve the conflict with a velvet glove by calmly addressing the issue while asserting her authority.
- The CEO's velvet glove approach in negotiations allowed her to maintain a pleasant demeanor while securing a favorable deal for the company.
- The politician's speech was delivered with a velvet glove, using polite language to criticize his opponents' policies.